Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Giving My Thanks

I can't believe that Thanksgiving is tomorrow and I have not shared all for which I am thankful! I should have been keeping a list on my sidebar as some friends have. I'd like to thank my friend Jewelgirl from Sandwiched Mom for passing on the 2 things I'm Thankful For meme and prompting me to acknowledge all for which I should be grateful.

I AM THANKFUL FOR:My family, where everyone goes out of their way to accommodate my medical condition and help where they can. My parents visit every fortnight for several days and help with projects such as switching the seasonal clothes, organizing things I can't reach, pulling holiday decor from the basement, etc. My mother is a whirling dirvish doing chores and finding things that I never thought to do and with which she helps me. The day my father got up to get me a drink of water and walked without his cane to the kitchen was amazing. My sister goes to so many of my medical appointments and her husband rearranges his work schedule so he can be home with the kids while she is with me. My nephews and niece help with chores and errands. I couldn't be living on my own without the help of all of them. (Wait a minute, if I wasn't living alone, I'd have to live with one of them, so maybe that's why they do it!)My teachers' union sick bank. I donated one sick day to the bank when I was first hired by the town. When my sick days ran out almost two years ago, I was able to apply to the bank for more days, and all of my requests thus far have been granted, which means I continue to receive pay even though I am not at work. Having a chronic medical condition is scary on many levels, but at least I can pay my bills right now. My health insurance company. I have an EXCELLENT insurance plan, which I thought I knew, but I didn't truly realize until I got really sick. They pay for everything, and nothing has ever been questioned. They have a nurse liaison who calls and checks on me to see if there is anything I need or if I have questions about my condition or insurance. In five years of being sick, other than prescription co-pays, which I find very reasonable, my biggest expense has been paying to park at all the different city hospitals and facilities. That really says something!
My friends who have stood by me even though I can't do as much with them as before. My neighbor Carol, who puts out my trash, the friends like Susan, who call me to check in often, Mary who drives 45 minutes to visit me regularly and helps me with chores, Tom & Paul who make me get out of the house for our breakfasts every fortnight. Everyone jumped in and wanted to help when I was first sick, but it's those who've persisted in continuing our friendship, even though it has had to go a different way, that I truly appreciate.Modern technology. With the Internet I can do all of my shopping and have my groceries delivered. But more importantly it has opened up a social world to me where I have met so many wonderful people on message boards and discussion groups who inspire me to create, decorate, read new genres and authors, try different films, and think about things from perspectives I may not have had in the past. I truly appreciate everyone who visits my blog and comments, which encourages me to write interesting posts and share my limited world with you. It cannot be said enough, the Evil Overlord's Entourage has some of the most fabulous people on Earth!Wishing everyone a wonderful Thanksgiving, whether it be peaceful or crazy, as long as it's with those you love, celebrated in the way you love.

17 comments:

Coloradolady said...

Happy Thanksgiving Elizabeth! I am thankful for having met such good people like yourself through blogging! Have a great day.

Carolyn (Harbor Hon) said...

I too am thankful for family and a Lord who loves me even if I am getting old as the hills. :) I am also thankful to my sisters who goaded me into having my own blog so that I would have the opportunity to meet wonderful people like yourself. You have been such a blessing and I'm proud to call you friend. Happy Thanksgiving Elizabeth, God Bless you girl! xxoo

Smilingsal said...

I used the sick bank when I was out with ovarian cancer. Boy, what a wonderful blessing that is!
You have much to Thank God for, but then, so do your family and friends.

Anonymous said...

Elizabeth ~

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving and please give my regards to your family...I still remember the year David and I drove with Jake from New Jersey so that we'd have "family" to spend a holiday with.

I will write when we return from our Thanksgiving in Atlanta. I look forward to catching up on your blog and creating the little mice for Rebecca's 2nd graders!

~Kari

mannequin said...

Happy Thanksgiving Elizabeth.
Yes, even though each of us has our fair share of troubles, we also have our fair share of things to be thankful for.
I am so happy that you have such wonderful friends and family. You are truly blessed in many ways as are we all.
Eat lots of pumpkin pie and cranberries..ah, the cranberries.

Jewelgirl said...

What an awesome post and I knew you
would enjoy it Elizabeth! We are
fortunate to have all these lovely
people in your life. You are blessed!
Happy Thanksgiving ♥ Jewelgirl

Sarah said...

Elizabeth, I loved reading about all those who have been there for you and how your needs have been met. I cried through it all.

Sweetie said...

Elizabeth, I really enjoyed my visit. Your "giving thanks" is heart warming. I am sorry that you have physical difficulties. You certainly are a role model. Happy Thanksgiving.
Sweetie

Corgidogmama~ said...

Lovely post Elizabeth.
Happy Thanksgiving, and God bless.

Shelia said...

Dearest Elizabeth, you are a blessing! I'm so thrilled to know so many love and help care for you! Thanks for sharing your heart today and have a wonderful blessed Thanksgiving,
Be a sweetie,
Shelia :)

Oh2122 said...

I am thankful for so many things, including blogging. I am so happy I found it when I did. It has made a big difference in my life and it makes me thankful for other bloggers - like you!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Laura Ingalls Gunn said...

Your blessings are wonderful! I am thankful to know you.

May you be surrounded by those you love.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Stay tuned for Friday Freebie!

Anonymous said...

Happy Thanksgiving to the cleverest teacher I know. We enjoy our fortmorning brunch rendez-vous with yous.
In keeping with my advanced age-I am being appointed to the Council on Aging here in this seaside community on Tuesday evening. I'll pick your brains when I'm grant writing.
Soon....loon
Toot toot

BPOTW said...

You have amazing family, friends and support network! And an amazing insurance company, who would have thought they'd ever say that :)

Thanks for sharing all that you are thankful for. You truly are blessed.

krissy said...

You brought tears to my eyes, what a wonderful list! Happy Thanksgiving!

~TAMY 3 Sides of Crazy~ said...

I hope you had a fantastic Thanksgiving! I'm playing blog reader catch up tonight - it got way out of hand while I was eating turkey.

Jenners said...

Stopping by to visit after you visited my blog...and I loved reading your "best post of the week." Sounds like in the face of a lot of difficulties, you still have a lot to be thankful for! I must say, I've just about never heard someone be thankful for their health insurance company! But I am glad they are doing right by you! Best wishes!